Well, I'll post what I have on my mind at this point.
Do you get nerves when you are talking to someone, you really feel uncomfortable with?
I do, I'm always afraid or worried something will come out my mouth unexpectedly. Half of the time, I ignore what's being said and think about something off topic; which makes things better(sometimes) because you and the other person can change the subject about something you really care for or not. In other words I stall, I stall for a period of time, until they've noticed I haven't answered their question or made a statement.
I tend to get bored of what he/she says unless its something I have the same interest in, like e.g comedy movies. Other than that, if it's something I'm trying my best to avoid, then I try my best to avoid the person. I do whatever I can to stay away.
I usually say:
- I have to be somewhere else at the moment.
- I'm very busy/ in a hurry.
- Oh. She/He is calling me, I'll get back at you in a few.
- Turn around and pretend you don't see the person.
- Say you didn't hear them calling your name out.
Other than that, I kind of wanted to stay away from a person today and honesty my method didn't work, like I quite planned. The plan would of worked if I was picked up at the right time, but its all good and happened for the best.
Let's just hope, it doesn't happen again.....
I don't like to talk to people that I know have nothing else to do, but annoy me with the same suggestions and feelings on their mind. It makes me feel very nervous and uncomfortable:(
This is a great post because everyone can relate to this. I mean, I do this everyday...whenever I see Sunday coming down the hall, I automatically think of anything I can do other than talk to her!
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